\u201cWe are made of goodness. We are made for\nlove. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made\nfor all of the beautiful things that you and I know. We are made to tell the\nworld there are no outsiders. All are welcome: black, white, red, yellow, rich,\npoor, educated, not educated, male, female, gay, straight, all, all, all. We\nall belong to his family, this human family, God\u2019s family<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u2013 Desmond Tutu<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\nwas immensely satisfying to be intimately involved in the opening of the Black, White, Red & Yellow Art\nExhibition<\/em> this week on the colourful life of Archbishop Emeritus Desmond\nTutu. I grew up in a household during the Apartheid years where Tutu was\nconsidered to be the devil. I grew up learning to fear the Other \u2013 the things\nand people that were different and strange. He was even vilified in the\npropaganda press as the anti-Christ. This because of his stance against the\nevils of Apartheid society and his support of economic and cultural sanctions\nagainst the government of the day. Post-1994, after the first democratic election\nin South Africa, he continued speaking truth to power, and because of that, he\nwas often side-lined and urged to be quiet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I also grew up hating \u201cthe Otherness\u201d of myself. It was a long journey to undo the hate, fear, judging and moralism of my youth. Seeking a place to belong, in my own body and amongst other bodies in this world, I read the words of Desmond Tutu somewhere in the 1990s, writing that it would be unlikely that Christ would be on the side of those that ostracise people based on their race, gender or sexual orientation, making them aliens, banning them from the household of God. Little did I know that years later I would defend my doctorate in the Netherlands with him on the stage and his daughter standing by my side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desmond Tutu played a crucial part in my journey to un-fear and un-hate, to find a place of belonging and acceptance ~ to become more human. Along the way, in some sense I became a stranger in my family and an Other in the church. But I do belong ~ with the black, white, red, yellow, rich, poor, educated, not educated, male, female, gay, straight, all, all, all. We all belong to his family, this human family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Notes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cRichard,\nMarlene & Vincent\u201d: Photo credit\/ copyright: Jacob Meiring<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paul\nGermond and Steve de Cruchy, \u201cAliens in the household of God. Homosexuality and\nChristian Faith in South Africa\u201d (1997).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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